MIPA BAW/CHI TLA HAR!

Mipa mai nilo hmeichhia te ngat pawhin a pawi leh nupa kara harsa lian tak thlen tir tamtu chu inkilh laia a MIPA BAW/ CHI TLA hma lutuk hi a va ni tam em! Tuntum a kan sawi tur erawh chu hemi letling hi a ni thung si.

Tlak harte chu chi daih zawk lawm ni?? In lo ti rilru maw nu ho khan …. A awm tho mai; kan sawi tum tak hi tla har leh lutuk emaw thla thei lo..khawng tha reng tho si chungchang a ni. Dr. V. Ramanthan sex therapist leh sexual health physician chuan “Delayed ejaculation ( Tla har over) hi mipa serh khawng tha tho si, a chi/ baw tla /chhuak theilo sawina a ni,” a ti.

E heu! Nu ho phur ang a ni ta lo tawp mai… ninawm lamah a kal dawn tlats….. Hetaing harsatna hi a chhan chi 2 hlawm lian tak a awm, mithiam ten an ti. 1) Rilru lam (psychological) leh 2) Taksa (Physical) lama harsatna lian tak a awm vang.

A chang chuan taksa a natna chi hrang hrang heng: hypogonadism (intihchakna timur tlahniam nasa), thyroid – kaihhnawih harsatna neite, tilmu zai tawh te. Tin, zu leh drugs ti nasa teah a awm thei bawk. B.P. sang leh rilru lama harsatnei – damdawi ei nasa ten a nei thei bawk.

A dang leh chu: Mut tlem lutuk te…( Khai aw!! Tlangval leh pa FB leh ONLINE nasa ho kha..kei pawh ka tel tep..), inkilh laia rilru sawrbing thei lo te, rilru hah lutuk vang te, zam leh phawkleh vang te, mahni indahhniam vang te, kawppui te nena inlaichinna tha tawklo vang te, zanghrawt (fingering) nasat vang te pawhin he harsatna DANGDAI – KHAWNGRENG RINGAWT hi a awm thei bawk an tih pek chu!

Tisa chakna leh phurna/ nuamtihna (sexual arousal) hi thil tam – taksa khawlte leh kan chhehvel thilte inbelhbawmin a siam a niin kan thuak hnathawh hian a hril thui tak zet a ni.

Engtin nge ni ta ang le… chu ti fung ringawt chu na/ hreawm tak a thlen theih bakah serh a thisenzam mar reng te chu a lo rulin an chhe thei tlat mai si…. Hui ham…

I han hmuchhhuak dawn teh ang: Taksa lam a harsatna vang a nih chuan :

1) I hrawt thin kha han ban phawt mai teh!! Chuchuan I harsatna a la kiang em tih zir chiang ang che.

2) Chumi anih loh chuan heng sex therapy (tisa chakna KAILAWM) mawl te hi mi tam ber te hlawhtlin pui a ni a sin: (phur taka foreplay leh inkilh hnuah leh nupuiin a vawrtawp a thlen hial tawh hnuah ….hmun fianrial leh thawm chhuah pawh inthahrun awm lohna hun leh hmun ni ngei se)

 

  1. Mi pa/ pasal chuan a nupui bulah a hmuh laiin inhrawh zui rawh se…
  1. Nupui chuan an pa danglam dan chu zirpahin chet lo thawhin an pa chu a thiam tawk leh a aia nasain an pa serh chu khalhin, fawh-hrawt sak se ..an pa nuam tih theih dan ber khan a sawisa nuam hle tur a ni.
  1. Rilru zawng zawng leh induhsakna bakah hmangaihna nena nupuiin a sawngbawl (lai che hian ilo awm mai mai bik dawn si lo : IN INLAWM mek zawk a ni si a) hnuah che chuan ilo phur zual ngei ang a, a tla dawn tak zet a I hriat laiin phur takin hotunu duhthusam leh I duhthusam ti puitling turin a hmun tak ah chuan I KILH char char ang…..

Chhei raw le! A fa fuh char char em! Hetiang a in tih hlawh tlin theih chuan a hnulamah chuan pangngai takin a hun takah hmangaihna RUAH chu I sur tir thei ngei tawh ang.

Khi tiang pawh a I la hlawh tlinglo fo anih chuan sex therapist/ sexual health physician te rawng ngei ang che. Mahni thu leh mi nazawngin chu chu a that i a an rawn damdawi ei mai mai suh!

(Mi 1 harsatna sutkian pui ka tumna lama ka inbuatsaihna group member te tan a tangkai takin ka rawn SHARE ve che u a ni e…. ‘Kim chang leh HIAM HIAM deuh a tih a that rualin tu te ngaihtuahna – morally un-FIT ho a hruai sual ka hlau pah si…… Kan society ah tiang harsatna nei te hi kan lo awm teuh (ru) mahna, ilo sawi ho teh ang u khai..’ tiin)

 

By : Alden Kima Chongthu

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10 months ago

Tha khawp mai

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